Some people won't deal with the truth even if its right in front of their face. Ignoring it isn't going to make it go away, ever. It's not easy to realize you may not meet someone else's expectations but pretending thats what you are and want you want is only ever going to leave you miserable.  You become frustrated by the situation you're in and think if you change aspects of your life around, things will get better. But it's not whats around you, its just you. And no matter where you go or what you do, you take yourself with you. Thats a hard lesson to learn. So stop blaming outside forces and take a hard look at yourself because I think you're missing the point.
     By the same token, people who are jerky and obnoxious should just be ignored, they are their own worst punishment.

God, I sound like a fortune cookie.

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